Hey,
I am using a couple of adapters. For the CM4IO board I’ve ended up using this one: https://www.amazon.de/dp/B006K24RA6?ref_=pe_27091401_487187591_302_E_DDE_di_1
It has plenty of clearance under the XTRX.
For the RPi5 I don’t remember which one I’ve ended up using it’s either of those:
There’ve been some boards without some crucial component fitted on the board: XTRX not found - #12 by ricardas
I had that one missing, and the XTRX had real struggle being detected on some configurations. So make sure it is fitted for you. If not, you can just put a solder bridge (that’s what I did).